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Tuesday, October 17, 2017

The Master Key

Hi there,
How are you? Hope you're doing fine and being happy with your loved ones.

So here I have something to share with you guys. Something that I learned. I just learned actually. But maybe it sounds lame and boring to you guys lol

It's about COMMUNICATION.

Being in relationship makes me realize that communication is everything, regardless the feeling that we both share. Loving someone, being in relationship with them is useless without communication. Even your very first step to get to know him/her needs communication. You confess your feelings to them needs communication. You want them to be your partner needs communication. You need to speak and it is a communication.

It become more and more important when you both started to be serious. Don't just keep everything to yourself. You got problem, tell your partner then. Don't just act differently and expect them to understand you. You don't feel good with them, tell them. You need to discuss something with them, go on then. You want them to treat you the way you want, tell them. You want them to buy fancy clothes for you, ask for it. Don't just giving hint or keeping it to yourself. It won't work. Some people are born not to be understanding.

Communication is always the key to everything. Key to happiness. Key to have a good life. Key to joy and peace. Not using it will only lead you to misery.

Lacking of communication can actually ruins your relationship. You both get misunderstood, you don't make things clear, your partner become overthinking, they create something that don't even exist, you fight with them and eventually ........... .

Well, communication not just important in relationship, but in everything. Friendship, family, partnership, grouping, etc. Don't make the ship wrecked.



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Saturday, September 30, 2017

A penny

We, human, we don't know everything. Accept the fact and keep learning instead of buat-buat tahu which end up you got everything screwed up.


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Friday, September 29, 2017

Am I still a little girl to them?



I wonder what do my mom and dad felt to have their daughter grown-up. I've started to bring my own car to the class, I live at the rented house, I cook my own dish, settle my own laundry, have boyfriend bla bla bla.

Or do they still think that I'm still a little girl ( but physically, yes πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚)

Well I don't get the freedom that the grown-up got. They're still making decision for me. Do this, don't do that. Once, my teacher joked "Tak lama kak liza (my mom) dapat menantu la" and my mom went "Ehhh jangan jangan. Dia belum habis belajar lagi" πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Whatever it is, I'm still hoping that I didn't grow up. Sometimes I really wanna go back to the old times, when I still lived with them, being sent to school by my dad and later in the afternoon my mom came to pick me up. I miss the moment when I wanted to go anywhere and the drove me there instead of driving of my own [I even go to the clinic by myself :') ] , I miss the moment when I look cute every time I got attitude, (I'm 21 now and acting like that makes me feel awful agagagaga).

And I miss my mom and dad way too much




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Monday, September 25, 2017

sigh

I'm trying to be better everyday. But Idk what do you actually want. I always feel that I'm never good enough for you. Idk what else to do. Kinda break my heart to know that you are being paranoid with me. And I'm actually sad to know that all this time you choose your ego over me. Who am I to you then? Should I stay or just walk away?



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Sunday, September 24, 2017

Midnight Thought

Don't dwell on past. It is only gonna hurt you and everyone around you. Go and get some times to get over the past. And leave it where it belongs. In the past.


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