Tell me if I make you feel uneasyTell me if I make you angryTell me if I make you sadTell me if you feel I'm such a busybodyTell me if you've found someone better than me to be your friendI'll step away from you...
Friday, April 12, 2013
AS SALAM^^
before I start babbling,, take a look at the image below
which side attract you the most? left ones or right ones? I'm pretty sure the answer is the left side isn't it? my sister saw this image and she asked,, "what is that?"
let me explain.. both side represent the two human beings.. the right side represent a flawless person... and the left ones represent a person who had done a small mistakes..
only a small mistake,, but big enough to be people's attraction all his/her life... people doesn't look at the good deeds someone's done but they often pay more attention to ones mistakes... that's what the facilitators told me this morning... I agree with their opinion...
now,, it's my turn to express my opinion....
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no matter how kind a person is,, the kindness will be forgotten just like that when that person did even a small mistake although he/she always did the good things all his/her life...it is like the all the good things that the person did had vanished like ashes spreading in the air...in the view of community,, there's nothing good at the person once that person make a mistake....and what happen next? all the nice thing that the person do after that will be considered as bad things...
we should fix this... let's change our way of thinking... stop being prejudice and think negative about others... everyone has upside and downside.... we should accept " TO ERR IS HUMAN" ... everybody makes mistakes... and so us... no body perfect in this world... the most important thing is don't look for others mistakes but look ours... we've done mistakes too... let's the mistakes and experiences be the reasons for us not to do the same mistake....
and now,, pesanan untuk orang Melayu especially orang Islam...
kalau ada orang buat salah,, cepat je kita nak mengumpat dia.... mulanya start pasal dia buat kita rasa tak puas hati je,, pastu meleret sampai semua benda tak baik yang dia buat walaupun takde kena mengena dengan kita.... orang tu wat salah,, patutnya kita bagi nasihat,, bukan mengumpat... kalau tak nanti mana dia tahu dia ada buat salah kat kita... at least,, dia boleh mintak maaf kan,, and tak buat lagi kesalahan tu... orang Malaysia ni kalau ada orang buat salah,, dia diamkan je... bukannya nak tegur... pastu kalau orang tu ulang kesalahan dia,, kita jugak yang tambah sakit hati... pastu mula lah nak ajak orang kampung " buat ketupat " .....
and lagi satu,, kalau orang tu ada wat salah pasal hal mendatangkan dosa,, kita patutnya ingatkan dia apa yang dia bua tu salah... suruh dia bertaubat.... bukannya mengata belakang.... kalau macam tu,, sama jelah kita dengan orang tu... contonhya,, orang tu tipu kita something... sepatutnya suruh dia mntak maaf dengan kita and bertaubat... tapi kita lebih memilih untuk menceritakan kesalahan dia tu kat orang lain... tu sama je dengan mengumpat.... menipu dengan mengumpat tu sama sama dosa besar.... so sama je kita dengan dia kann....
yang menyedihkan tu,, kita terus pulaukan orang tu and hasut orang lain suruh pulaukan dia jugak... kann tak baik putuskan silaturrahim.... sape lagi jahat sebenarnya,, kita ke dia? kesalahan dia tu menipu je tapi kita dah lah mengumpat dia pastu putuskan silaturrahim....
so,, fikir fikirkan lah sebelum menghukum orang lain... agama Islam menyuruh umatnya saling pesan memesan dan mengingati...
Surah Al-'Asr 103: 1-3
dan bukannya mengumpat dia....
Surah Al-Hujuraat 49:12
*SALAM JUMAAT*
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before I start babbling,, take a look at the image below
which side attract you the most? left ones or right ones? I'm pretty sure the answer is the left side isn't it? my sister saw this image and she asked,, "what is that?"
let me explain.. both side represent the two human beings.. the right side represent a flawless person... and the left ones represent a person who had done a small mistakes..
only a small mistake,, but big enough to be people's attraction all his/her life... people doesn't look at the good deeds someone's done but they often pay more attention to ones mistakes... that's what the facilitators told me this morning... I agree with their opinion...
now,, it's my turn to express my opinion....
***
no matter how kind a person is,, the kindness will be forgotten just like that when that person did even a small mistake although he/she always did the good things all his/her life...it is like the all the good things that the person did had vanished like ashes spreading in the air...in the view of community,, there's nothing good at the person once that person make a mistake....and what happen next? all the nice thing that the person do after that will be considered as bad things...
we should fix this... let's change our way of thinking... stop being prejudice and think negative about others... everyone has upside and downside.... we should accept " TO ERR IS HUMAN" ... everybody makes mistakes... and so us... no body perfect in this world... the most important thing is don't look for others mistakes but look ours... we've done mistakes too... let's the mistakes and experiences be the reasons for us not to do the same mistake....
and now,, pesanan untuk orang Melayu especially orang Islam...
kalau ada orang buat salah,, cepat je kita nak mengumpat dia.... mulanya start pasal dia buat kita rasa tak puas hati je,, pastu meleret sampai semua benda tak baik yang dia buat walaupun takde kena mengena dengan kita.... orang tu wat salah,, patutnya kita bagi nasihat,, bukan mengumpat... kalau tak nanti mana dia tahu dia ada buat salah kat kita... at least,, dia boleh mintak maaf kan,, and tak buat lagi kesalahan tu... orang Malaysia ni kalau ada orang buat salah,, dia diamkan je... bukannya nak tegur... pastu kalau orang tu ulang kesalahan dia,, kita jugak yang tambah sakit hati... pastu mula lah nak ajak orang kampung " buat ketupat " .....
and lagi satu,, kalau orang tu ada wat salah pasal hal mendatangkan dosa,, kita patutnya ingatkan dia apa yang dia bua tu salah... suruh dia bertaubat.... bukannya mengata belakang.... kalau macam tu,, sama jelah kita dengan orang tu... contonhya,, orang tu tipu kita something... sepatutnya suruh dia mntak maaf dengan kita and bertaubat... tapi kita lebih memilih untuk menceritakan kesalahan dia tu kat orang lain... tu sama je dengan mengumpat.... menipu dengan mengumpat tu sama sama dosa besar.... so sama je kita dengan dia kann....
yang menyedihkan tu,, kita terus pulaukan orang tu and hasut orang lain suruh pulaukan dia jugak... kann tak baik putuskan silaturrahim.... sape lagi jahat sebenarnya,, kita ke dia? kesalahan dia tu menipu je tapi kita dah lah mengumpat dia pastu putuskan silaturrahim....
so,, fikir fikirkan lah sebelum menghukum orang lain... agama Islam menyuruh umatnya saling pesan memesan dan mengingati...
Demi masa! Sesunggguhnya manusia itu berada dalam kerugian. Kecuali orang yang beriman dan beramal soleh, dan mereka pula berpesan-pesan dengan kebenaran dan mereka berpesan dalam keadaan sabar
Surah Al-'Asr 103: 1-3
dan bukannya mengumpat dia....
Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Jauhilah kebanyakan dari sangkaan (supaya kamu tidak menyangka sangkaan yang dilarang) kerana sesungguhnya sebahagian dari sangkaan itu adalah dosa; dan janganlah kamu mengintip atau mencari-cari kesalahan dan keaiban orang; dan janganlah setengah kamu mengumpat setengahnya yang lain. Adakah seseorang dari kamu suka memakan daging saudaranya yang telah mati? (Jika demikian keadaan mengumpat) maka sudah tentu kamu jijik kepadanya. (Oleh itu, patuhilah larangan-larangan yang tersebut) dan bertaqwalah kamu kepada Allah; sesungguhnya Allah Penerima taubat, lagi Maha mengasihani.
Surah Al-Hujuraat 49:12
*SALAM JUMAAT*
Thursday, April 11, 2013
AS SALAM^^
budak zaman sekarang ni dah tak reti nak main permainan macam orang dulu dulu... dulu diorang main congkak, guli, batu seremban, more...
tapi budak budak sekarang,, main gadget je... install game banyak banyak pastu pilih je mane mana game ikut mood....
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yang menyedihkan tu,, siap berebut laptop dengan kakak....
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budak zaman sekarang ni dah tak reti nak main permainan macam orang dulu dulu... dulu diorang main congkak, guli, batu seremban, more...
tapi budak budak sekarang,, main gadget je... install game banyak banyak pastu pilih je mane mana game ikut mood....
...............
yang menyedihkan tu,, siap berebut laptop dengan kakak....
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| "Bagi la Ayish main dulu" "Ala,, kakak nak guna dulu" |
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| "Yes!!! Ayish menang jugak akhirnye..." |
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| amboi!! sebelah tangan je... |
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