grown-up vs teenager

korang mesti selalu dengar orang dewasa gaduh dengan ramaja kan??? sama ada cerita kwn2 atau pengalaman sendiri....mesti akan ada perselisihan antara dua golongan ni dlm satu2 perkara.....tk kiralah perkara tu berkaitan dgn remaja atau dewasa......mesti ada yang tk setuju......jangan kata "TAK" sebab Nad sendri ada pengalaman mcm tu....(hihi).....dewasa fikir remaja ni terlalu muda utk buat keputusan sendiri....masa yg sama,,remaja fikir diorg da besar utk menentukan kehidupan diorg........dewasa fikir diorg je betul....sebab diorg da besar......diorg langsung tk nk dengar pendapat org muda.....diorg ingat kaum muda ni tk berhak bg pendapat.......yelah,,diorg dah byk makan garam..... agaknye sebab tu orang tua kena high blood pressure kot......ada remaja tk suka diperlakukan spt bdk2....tp ada juga remaja yg mcm Nad ni suka dimanjakan...hik hik....bg yg mcm Nad tkde byk mslh dgn org tua I guess coz I rarely disagree or have a fight with my parents .......tp dr kajian dan pemerhatian yg telah Nad buat,,generally,,remaja yg tk suka dimanjakn ni selalunya bergaduh dgn parents diorg......I has a friend of mine who always pick a fight with her parents....but I don't want to mention her name.....her mother never understand her......dia ni anti-sosial.....so,,dia ni selalu terperap dlm rumah....she hates hubbub and prefer to live alone and quietly.....but her mom think she is arrogant and don't want to mix with other......she has been lock herself in her room for the whole day because she wanted to study because PMR was about to approach.....but her mom thought she was using laptop....totally unfair right??? cmne dia nk online sdg kan mak dia dah 'tarik' dia punya laptop....dia kata dia study dlm bilik sbb adik2 dia ganggu.....kesian.....orang tua selalu fikir bkn2 kt remaja.....as if teenagers never do the right thing.....remaja langsung tk diberi peluang nk jelaskan apa2.....diorg kata remaja ni biadab sbb menjwb....tp kaum remaja ni cuma nk betulkan salah faham org tua je.....memang dalam dilema kalau berada dlm situasi mcm tu.......kdg2 Nad fikir "NAK HIDUP PUN SUSAH,,SEMUA TAK KENA,,SEMUA SALAH" ........ ada juga time org tua beli apa sj yg diorg nk,,tp kalau remaja nk something "AKAN DIPERTIMBANGKAN".......diorg blh dpt apa sj diorg nk sbb diorg da keja,,dah besar.......huhu.....tu yg menyebabkan remaja rasa mcm nk bekerja sendiri....ada juga parents yg suka mengongkong remaja.....diorg buat cm tu sbb diorg takut ank remaja diorg terjebak perkara negatif.....tp remaja fikir org tua cuba nk kwal hidup diorg......cuba sekat kebebasan diorg.....well,,dlm hal ni Nad tk sokong sape2.....sbb dua2 betul dan dua2 slah....hihi~  tp apa2 pun selagi tk bertentangan dgn agama, kita tk blh lawan ibu bapa....DOSA BESAR....korg pun tahu yg SYURGA BERADA DI BAWAH TAPAK KAKI IBU..... tp jgn pulak korg tilik tapak kaki ibu korg semata-mata nk buktikan ayat td,, mau kena tendang..huhu... korg tk ingat ke berapa bulan mak korg bwk korg ke sana ke mari?? 9 bulan 10 hari tau.... pastu bertarung nyawa nk lahirkan korg....pastu bg korg susu...pastu belikan makan dan pakain korg....hntr korg pegi skolah....didik korg sampai korg jd doctor,lawyer,teacher, etc.....so,,appreciate your parents and love them more than everything.....because,,if anything happen,,they won't leave you,,but they always be by your side.....

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